From the Mom: The boys let me take over their blog today so I could talk about something serious.
When we turn the water faucet on, the water comes streaming out. We think it will never end as it splashes over our hands. Then one day we turn on the faucet and one tiny drip comes out and then nothing. What happened? Did we do something different?
I just lost a dear friend. He died alone at home and wasn’t found right away. How long was he there by himself? How did he die? Did he know he would not be seeing his friends again? Why did the water that was his life suddenly stop flowing?
I have many questions and very few answers. What were his final thoughts? Did he know he was dying alone? Were the angels there to help him? I have a strong feeling that they were.
He was a nice man and a wonderful friend. He loved helping others. His gruff demeanor could scare people off at times, but it was all an act. He had a heart that reached out to those who were in need. He had a great laugh that he didn’t always share with everyone, but those of us who heard it loved it.
Now I wonder if I was good enough at showing him how much value he had. Did he know he was a special person to many friends? Did he know he was loved? He wasn’t one to talk about feelings or show much emotion, but those are usually the ones with hearts as big as all outdoors.
Our time on earth is brief. We don’t fully understand the impact we may have on others. That’s why we need to respect those around us. We need to make our fellow humans feel they are worthy. We may not be able to like everyone, but I do feel that we can love them through God.
Tell your friends you love them. Hug your family members. Don’t forget the fur people in your lives. That love is what keeps the water flowing. When it stops and there is no water flowing, we are alone.
This column is dedicated to Dave Webb. I pray the angels are dancing with you as you meet up with other family members and friends. You were special to me and your friendship meant a lot. You will be missed by those of us left behind.
TwoCatsViews 
A wonderful tribute. Thank you.
Thank you so much.
It’s hard to know if we have loved enough. All we can do, as you say, is to tell (and show) people we love them as much and as often as possible. I am sure your friend knew how much you cherished his friendship. 🙂
Very true. I think he knew and I’m sure the angels are telling him now.
It’s on a slightly different scale but my little old cat vanished about 6 weeks ago. I think she went away to die, but I keep asking myself, “Did I love her enough?” “Did I fail her?” 😦 😦
I had a cat that did that, too. I know they like to take off if they are dying. You have a big heart and I’m sure your fur person felt all your love.
I do hope so.
When you give of yourself, you are a blessing and in turn you will be blessed.
How sad. 😦 Humans need to reach out more to those around them. My human has some friends who are single and don’t have family nearby and she worries about them sometimes.
Yes, humans do need to reach out to those around them. Give hugs more often.
So sorry for your loss. Dave sounds like a pretty special guy. No one dies alone, just like no one lives alone. Prayers for your sadness to heal.
Thanks so much. No, he was never alone. At least he is finished with all the stress and worries of life on earth.
I’m sorry you lost a very special man and know it is hard to not see them around when you pass by where they used to live. He will be at peace now and are sure he will know you miss him.
Luv Hannah and Lucy’s Mum Sue x
Thanks for the comforting words. 🙂
What a lovely tribute to your dear friend, Pam. Please accept my sympathy.
Thanks, Donna.
This is an awesome tribute to a wonderful friend. My condolences to all who knew him; I truly believe each of us leaves a mark that can never be erased ♥♥♥
That is so true and that mark differs from person to person.
We’re sorry to hear about your friend. This happened a few years ago to one of the mom’s friends who died suddenly at home alone. She still thinks about him.
We know the angels watch over them and us.
I am very sorry for the loss of your friend.
Thank you for your care. It means a lot!
I’m so sorry for the loss of your dear friend, Pam. What a beautiful post. Sending you love.
(((hugs)))
Thanks, Glogirly. I knew you would understand how I felt. Hugs right back to all of you from all of us!